Suz Ryan had been the sole caregiver for her husband for nearly five years until one moment she realized she was under pressure. She spent many nights correcting financial mistakes while her husband, due to Alzheimer's disease, was unable to do so. Ryan stopped going to the gym and even neglected to make time for her own medical appointments. She responded negatively to any offers of help, telling herself she could handle everything.
Signs of Caregiving Stress
When Ryan witnessed a potato chip fall from her husband's plate, she suddenly felt anger and thought, "I do all this for you. You can't even keep a chip on your plate?" But she didn't say this and gave her husband more chips, then went to the bathroom to calm down. There, she began to tremble and asked herself what had happened.
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Ryan, who has spent 40 years of her life caring for family members and founded the support organization "Caregiver Journey," realized that she had gradually sacrificed parts of her life. She states, "I didn't realize the impact of giving up a little here and a little there for this work." Caregiving stress can have serious consequences for physical and mental health and is associated with anxiety, depression, sleep problems, mood disorders, and burnout.
Negative Effects on Sleep and Health
To identify when the negative impact of caregiving on health begins, the pattern of changes is important. Do you frequently have trouble sleeping, rarely eat, or get angry? Do you no longer reach out to friends? If these changes become consistent and persistent, they are signs of caregiving stress. Friends and family may notice these changes before you do.
Ryan says that even when she was asleep, she wasn't truly resting and was always worried about future problems. This mental pressure can affect blood pressure and immune system function, and not visiting a doctor can delay new issues. Caregivers often postpone their medical check-ups and ignore symptoms that need to be addressed.
While not every headache or stomachache is caused by caregiving stress, new or concerning symptoms need medical evaluation. Ryan ultimately decided to move her husband to a care facility because his condition had progressed and he needed more social interaction than she could provide at home.
Counseling and support for caregivers are very important. Ryan and Marini suggest that caregivers should prioritize themselves and seek solutions to reduce their stress burden. If the situation seems overwhelmingly unbearable, it may be time to consider changes and improvements to the circumstances.
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